Do you have to have compersion in order to be in a "healthy" poly relationship?
The ability to be ok with your partner's or partners' other relationships is necessary in the long term. But you don't have to be all, "Oh, squee! My husband just got laid!
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I'm tickled pink! Does having compersion for your Naughty dating Laredo mean you can never get jealous?
Of course not.
Jealousy happens. It's all about how you deal with it. Compersion can hit you right in the heart with its power, or it can sneak up on you and make you giggle.
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It can turn you on powerfully even if, and maybe especially if, you're also feeling jealous or enviousor it can make you feel protective and tender.
It's just a feeling.
Males and females have evolved differing mating strategies, related to the great difference in the investment of each gender in reproduction. Humans as a species are Free sex with new zealand girls by biologists as "mildly polygynous" based on our sexual dimorphism [the difference in average sizes and appearance between males and females] and our behaviors [males tend to be more physically aggressive, and compete for mating opportunities with females].
In monogamous societies like ours, the richest, most successful men often keep mistresses in addition to their wives. The reverse, polyandry, is extremely rare among humans.
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This is because typically males are sexually jealous of their female partners due to a fear of being cuckolded, and of raising another male's offspring. Men tend to crave sexual variety for its own sake to a much greater degree than women, and to make up the vast majority of sexual deviants [pedophiles, etc].
We are looking for a bi female to play with us! NSA!!, FFM Dating. Why are so many male/female couples looking for a bi-female (HBB)?. Males and females have evolved differing mating strategies, related to the great difference. We had threesomes with my wife's friends and lucked out when her BFF got divorced and needed a place to live for a few months. Turned out she was secretly.
Given this basic difference between male and female sexual strategies, it is not surprising that many men in monogamous relationships would be interested in Fairy tale sex swinging or the polygynous type of polyamory.
In the general populace, many, many men have a fantasy of having sex with two or more women at the same time.
The only difference between men in those monogamous couples and the men in the polyamorous couples who are seeking specifically the "HBB" is that the latter are lucky enough to have a female partner that will LET them try to fulfill the threesome fantasy.
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Owing to greater female equality and the possibility of divorce, women in the Modern West have the choice of stopping their male partner from sleeping around if they know about it, so often it is the woman who gets to make the final decision as to whether or not a monogamous couple tries polyamory. Hillsboro casual sex woman in a poly couple looking for an "HBB" is often bisexual, or sometimes is a closeted lesbian, and sees the poly option as an opportunity to explore that side of her sexuality.
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Or, sometimes she is straight, and just isn't Seeking cute single Netherlands male 18 25 to jealousy. The surprise is not that so many poly couples are of this polygynous type, but that not more of them are. Just like the religious preferences of the poly community don't exactly match those of the general populace, but are tilted more to the progressive end of the spectrum, perhaps poly people tend to be less jealous than the average [they would almost have to be, wouldn't they?